Protecting Seniors from Financial Exploitation
When Jilenne Gunther’s uncle noticed their 91-year-old grandfather often had less cash than he should, he took an unusual step. As a banker, he placed a bank dye pack—used to catch robbers—into the wallet. When the money vanished, the dye was found on a trusted home care worker’s coat. This incident sparked Ms. Gunther’s passion for elder financial protection and led her to become the director of the AARP’s BankSafe Initiative.
Americans over age 70 currently control an estimated $53 trillion in wealth, making them prime targets for financial scams. According to experts, the best way to safeguard aging loved ones is through empathy, vigilance, and proactive conversations—sometimes with professional assistance.
The Emotional and Financial Toll
Financial exploitation goes beyond monetary loss. It can cause anxiety, depression, heart complications, and even suicide. Ms. Gunther highlights that older adults often need the help of their adult children or trusted friends to navigate financial decisions more clearly. “There’s a U-shaped curve in financial decision-making, with younger and older adults being more prone to mistakes,” she noted.
Common Financial Pitfalls
Some of the most harmful situations involve misplaced trust—sometimes even in family members. Other times, it’s about investments that are too risky for someone in retirement. “It’s crucial to slow down and evaluate financial decisions thoroughly,” said Ms. Gunther.
The FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center reported nearly 150,000 complaints of online fraud against individuals aged 60 and older in 2024. Losses totaled nearly $5 billion, with victims losing an average of $83,000 each. Scams ranged from fake IRS agents to fraudulent online romances.
How to Approach Difficult Conversations
When faced with a suspicious financial decision, Ms. Gunther advises against a confrontational approach. “Saying things like ‘You’ve been scammed’ shuts down the conversation,” she explained. Instead, she recommends asking thoughtful questions: “What interests you about this investment? What are you hoping to achieve?”
Several free resources can help families investigate potential scams. These include:
- The SEC’s EDGAR database for verifying publicly traded companies
- FINRA’s BrokerCheck for financial advisor records
- Better Business Bureau complaints and reviews
- The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau complaint database
Verifying professional credentials is also essential. Use licensing organizations to confirm that any claimed certifications are valid.
Building Trust Within the Family
Ms. Gunther emphasizes the power of familial trust. Relatives who maintain open communication with aging parents are often best positioned to intervene when something seems off. Involving multiple family members who are in regular contact can also help create a united and supportive front.
Spotting Red Flags
In 2024, financial adviser Rianka Dorsainvil’s mother received a check with a request to send a money order in return—a classic check fraud scheme. “Scammers are becoming shockingly sophisticated,” warned Ms. Dorsainvil, founder of YGC Wealth. Tactics now include fake social media quizzes, messages that mimic relatives, and seemingly legitimate giveaways.
She suggests watching for signs such as:
- Offers that seem too good to be true
- Pressure to act quickly
- Guaranteed returns or earnings
When confronting a loved one, Ms. Dorsainvil recommends involving a neutral third party to avoid accusations. “Blame it on me,” she tells clients. “Say your financial adviser had concerns.” This approach keeps the conversation educational rather than judgmental.
Dementia and Financial Decision-Making
Peter Lichtenberg, former director of the Institute of Gerontology at Wayne State University, notes that financial mishaps can be early indicators of dementia. “About one in five people discover a parent’s dementia because they’re losing money,” he said.
Common signs include repeated donations, falling for similar scams, or forgetting prior financial actions. Other red flags include missed appointments, new health issues, or repeating the same story multiple times in one day.
Dr. Lichtenberg suggests a two-step approach. First, evaluate the family culture around money and privacy. Second, frame the discussion as a series of ongoing conversations. “It’s rarely a one-and-done realization,” he explained. “You’re negotiating, not confronting.”
Proactive Steps to Prevent Fraud
Preventive measures can go a long way in protecting aging relatives:
- Initiate open discussions about rising scam rates and offer support
- Ask if they want help monitoring their finances
- Suggest protective account features like daily withdrawal limits or transaction alerts
- Request to be added as a trusted contact on their financial accounts
- Use monitoring services like EverSafe for alerts on unusual activity
- Encourage freezing credit to prevent identity theft
- Share the AARP Fraud Watch Network Helpline: 877-908-3360
Encouraging independence and presenting options rather than directives can make these efforts more effective and respectful.
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